Before your first social
Six short guides for a first night out dancing.
Coming on your own
Many people come on their own. Nobody expects you to bring a partner.
- Come for the lesson if there is one: it is the easiest way to meet people.
- In a lesson, partners often change every few minutes.
- After the lesson, anyone can ask anyone to dance.
Asking and saying no
A dance is usually one song, and asking is simple.
- Smile, hold out a hand, and ask: Would you like to dance?
- A no, thank you is fine. No reason is needed.
- Say thank you when the song ends.
The lesson and the night
Many socials start with a short lesson. Then the music starts and everyone dances.
- Check the night's time line for the lesson.
- Come a few minutes early to pay and find the room.
- Feeling lost at first is normal.
What to wear
Wear what you can move in.
- Shoes with smooth soles help you turn. Grippy sneakers are hard on knees.
- Bring water, and a spare shirt if it gets warm.
- Check the night for a dress code.
On the floor
Look after your partner and the people around you.
- Keep moves small when the floor is full.
- Dance at your partner's level.
- Skip dips and tricks unless you both know them.
If something is not right
You can stop dancing at any time, even in the middle of a song.
- Say thank you and walk away. You don't owe a reason.
- On a night with a host, the night shows who it is.
- If you are in danger, call 911.